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CLARITY LED ME TO GOLF, WHICH LED TO... Hi There! So there I was on a beautiful Saturday morning. The sun shining, people laughing as they walked by, and me sitting at my desk typing on my computer. ‘ding, ding’ my phone squeaked, as another text came through, ‘hmm is that my friend Lisa? ' I thought as I picked up the phone to check the text, no, it was “Duke Energy” reminding me my bill was coming up due. “Oh yea let me go ahead and pay that energy bill,” I thought as I sat there. Then, out of the blue, I just started laughing. I was laughing because I was thinking, here I am focused on working on business and paying bills, while everyone else is enjoying this beautiful Saturday…AS THEY SHOULD! Then I thought to myself All I do is work and pay bills… And I sat with that thought, because I do love my career. I genuinely do. But in that moment, I realized my whole life had gotten so small. So routine. So... flat. I knew I needed something to disrupt it. I just didn't know what. So I did what I teach my clients to do. I grabbed a piece of paper, and I started writing. Tiffiny, what do you need right now? What would bring you joy? What can you do outside of work that is actually fun and gives you energy? My brain went through a list. Yoga? been doing that. Indoor rock climbing? Love it, but the nearest place is too far. And then out of nowhere, golf popped in my mind. I had to laugh, I've played putt-putt. That's the full extent of my golf experience. But I wrote it down. And then I opened my laptop and typed one word: GOLF. I found a course near me and a pro who teaches beginners. A week later, I got a message about a hotel selling off golf clubs for next to nothing, which I quickly jumped on. (Watch my YouTube Shorts about it here): THEN.... I found a women’s golf group online and joined! Women who owned businesses. Women in corporate leadership, high-achieving, driven women who also just wanted a hobby and some community. I walked into golf for something to look forward to on a Saturday. I walked out with a whole new professional network. Women I now do business with and have a community with. All of that started with one question on a piece of paper. Tiffiny, what do you need? That is the clarity work. It is how I build the foundation with my one-on-one coaching clients. And it is exactly what I do together every single Wednesday in my group workshop: Stuck, Overworked and Overwhelmed: Get Clear on What You Want in Work & Life. If you've been going through the motions, feeling drained, successful on paper, but something quietly feels missing, that feeling is not something to push through. It's a signal, and I would love to help you listen to it. We meet every Wednesday at 7 pm, and in 90 minutes, we work through the six areas of work and life that most high-achieving women have never stopped to get honest about. Pick a Wednesday that works for you at this link here. Know a woman who is always the one they call? Forward this to her. She needs this too. To your Joy, Happiness, and Freedom, Creator of: The Freedom Code™ - More Money. More Impact. Less Burnout™: A 90-Day One-On-One Coaching Experience to Get Seen, Heard, and Elevated in your career & business. Jump on a FREE Call with me - click here |
I am a life coach and content creator for divorced women. I focus on helping divorced women heal and rebuild their lives.
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